My early years were difficult. For many of my early years I was shuffled from house to house. Because of my own experience I hold the belief that many children of divorced parents get shuffled around way too much. Sometimes said child(ren) feel unwanted or even used, as the child(ren) become the sounding board of one parent talking bad about the other parent. [For the child's sake parents should at least try and be civil with one another.]
There are many things about my childhood I could talk about but for sake of privacy I will not mention. Let me just say that my childhood was a living hell. Many things took place that should never be imposed to a innocent child.
When you grow up, you are going to live in a cardboard box on the streets because you are stupid.
Statements such as this one above were being thrown at me by one particular individual on a regular basis. How could someone be so cruel? Throughout my life thus far there have been plenty of negative people in my life that told me that I would not grow up to be a successful adult, or I would graduate from college because I was not college material, or I would not be accepted into graduate school, and certainly not graduate with a Masters Degree or even be successful.
Based on the title on this blog God Always Has a Plan you may infer that I did not share all of this in order to receive pitty, condolences or I'm sorrys. Rather, I wrote this blog because I have overcome many hardships and I continue to work through my issues and I am also continuing to better myself as an empowered woman. With that being said I want to leave you with a piece of advice.
DO NOT EVER let anyone tell you you cannot do something for any reason what-so-ever.
My grand-PARENTS always told me I could do anything I put my mind to and I cannot sit here and type this and say that I always believed them, it is not easy, but with a lot of work you really can do anything you put your mind to.
No matter what disadvantages you have in your life you can and will overcome them. "Nothing is impossible with God." There have always been challenges in my life and they continue to pop up. These challenges are what I call "brick walls." When a brick wall comes into my life, I have to work through it, or break through it. Throughout my lifes challenges I have never given up. The words "give up" or any of the words derivatives have never been in my vocabulary. Giving up has never been an option for me.
I may not have graduated Magna Cum Laude or with some other type of honor, but I graduated. My future began when I graduated from a Catholic Preparatory High School, Marion Catholic High School. My journey to higher education began immediately after I graduated from high school. I attended Ohio Dominican University where I proudly graduated in 2012 with a Bachelor's Degree in Theology and a minor in Art History.
If this piece of paper I now hold was not so important, I would tear it up into many pieces so that I could share it with everyone who has supported me along the way, just like Cady did in Mean Girls, although she tore a crown into multiple pieces!
I would not be the person who I am today without God and all of the other wonderful people he has placed in my life. Thank you all.
Remember you are loved!